At the end of the day it’s all about your happiness.. Your loaded bank account.. Your zero figure.. Your big house.. Everything is secondary.. 🙂
She hugged him hard… As if he was the anchor, she was looking for her entire life…
My phone beeps… and I hope it to be him… Is this love??
I had a fight again in office… And I end up calling him… Is this love??
He tells me how he wants his future family with two daughters… I too start dreaming the same dream… Is this love??
He never a puts a DP of his own picture because he thinks, he is not handsome enough… Still I can stare his face all day… Is this love??
He tells me, don’t you think girls are getting prettier day by day… I am unable to say anything because how can he look at someone else when I am sitting in front of him… Is this love??
I am sad.. I am low.. He gives me a hug… And everything becomes beautiful again… Is this love??
I agree on whatever he thinks about life, family etc… He agrees with my opinions… Is this love??
Even on his stupidest jokes… I laugh like a crazy woman… Is this love??
Even in the saddest moments… Thoughts of our moments together make me smile… Is this love??
So, when someone asks me, what’s going on between you two… I still don’t know what to answer… Is this really love ??
“Happiness is not something readymade. It comes from your own action.” Dalai Lama XIV
Most of the times in our lives, we are searching for happiness but it’s not kept anywhere. We need to stop searching and work on creating it. There can be so many ways by which we can do so and bring ourselves closer to happiness. Here, I have chosen just 5 of them to share with you in little detail.
1. Life is in Phases.
2 years or 5 years back, you were a different person, wanted different things from life. Today is different. After 2 years or 5 years, everything will be different again. So whatever thing or person might be bothering you today, might not even mean anything for you tomorrow. Like your 10th mark sheet, now it hardly matters. Your first crush. You have met much better people than him or her. Thank god, it didn’t work out.
What’s very important for you in this phase, might actually not mean anything for you in next.
2. Whatever is happening in your life doesn’t have the power to affect you. It’s your reaction to it that effects you.
When you fail an exam, you don’t become a failure. You just couldn’t clear it because of certain reasons. If someone dumps you, it doesn’t mean that you are not good enough. It just means that you are not what he/she is looking for.
Good times and bad times will keep on coming like seasons but you are distant from it. Your reaction connects you to them.
3. Don’t put conditions to your happiness.
If you don’t get something you wanted but get something else. The other thing can also be equally beautiful but may be in a different way.
If you go to a restaurant and order chocolate shake, instead you are served with mango shake and now you can’t even change it. If you waste your time cribbing about the fact that you wanted chocolate shake and couldn’t get that, you will even spoil the moments in which you could have enjoyed mango shake.
Do make your order but don’t put a condition to it and accept happily whatever you receive. At least give it a chance.
4. No problem is big enough to put your life on hold.
To forget… to smile… to share that greeting… to smell that flower… to meet that friend…
Solving problems is important but it doesn’t mean that you forget to live your life in the process of solving them. May be you’ll be better able to solve your problems with a calmer mind, which can even help you in identifying different options to resolve the issue.
5. Never hesitate to ask for help or to share your problems.
No single person will be able to solve all of your problems or able to help you out always. But there must be someone who will be able to help you out or at least make things appear clearer to you.
We keep thinking that I am going through so much but the moment we share it with someone, then he or she provides us with different perspective to look at the same problem which we had been missing so far.
Hope you’ll find these points useful in your life. Please do share your views and comments. I’ll be eagerly waiting.
Wish you lots of happiness 🙂 🙂 🙂
She: I met a guy today, my parents were forcing me to meet from long back.
He: Ahaan, Nice… So you liked him.
She: Actually I think, I already like someone else… I wanted to tell you before… But I couldn’t… But now I have no choice…
He: Already… Wow… Who is the lucky fellow…
She: Aaaaa…. It’s you…. I know we are just friends but…. I am sorry… I couldn’t help it…..
She: you thr?? If it’s no from your side… It’s completely fine… No problem at all…
She: hey, I am really sorry… I didn’t mean to hurt you or trouble you… Please forget everything….
She calls him… He doesn’t pick the call…
She: Are I was just kidding… It was a joke… Forget it….
Call bell rings…
She opens the door… He is standing there with her favorite flower in his hand…
He bends on his knees and asks…..
“Will you marry me??”
She mumbles with tears in her eyes….
I am not your fan…. I have never been… I’ll never be…..Fans want you to be perfect, I fell for your imperfections 😉 …….
I don’t want your fake happy smile… keep it for others… I want to wipe your tears…. when you feel lonely…. I am not looking for strength in you… I just want to hug you tight, tell you I believe in you…. when you feel week….
I didn’t fall for you…. for your looks…. your voice…. your talent…..your salary…. I fell because of your innocence…. your sweetness…. your stupidities….. your twinkling eyes when you look at me…. the way you cheerfully listen when I shout at you….the way you never give up when you have to help me out… the way you sounded much more happier than me when I got my new job that also without asking my salary hike…. the way you copy exactly how I talk because you notice me so well….the way we sit together silently glazing stars…. the way you laugh on me and make fun of me…. the way you stop… and tell me that I look beautiful ❤ …….
I don’t love you because you can buy me expensive gifts…. but because you still want to prepare coffee for me…..
I don’t want to know how successful you are….. or how many people appreciate you….I just want to know the real you… whom you have been hiding from the harshness of real world… the vulnerable you…. the delicate you…. I just want to softly keep that you in my heart…. ❤
I don’t love you for your confidence…. your smartness…. your skills… I love you because of your patience…. your cooperation…. and understanding behavior….
I don’t only love you because you are so special… but because you still choose to act so ordinary…. ❤ ❤
You are the one, who will chose
What your life is going to be….
As common as sand
or as rare as diamond
Don’t follow others
Like under magic spell…
Have the courage to say
I’ll make my own way….
Don’t hide between others
Come in spotlight…
Have a strong determination
and a clear future sight….
If you fail don’t feel
that you are low….
You need to be polished
before you start to glow….
Play with your own rules
don’t copy, don’t cheat….
Possibilities are alive,
also after facing defeat….
Your defeat is a victory
for who deserved it more…
Improve your own skills
to increase your score…
If you want to shine like a diamond
you will have to pay the price….
Only existing is not enough
be great and not just nice…..
When my mom would have taken me first time in her arms, she must have smiled with joy… When I would have taken my first steps and then staggered, my parents must have smiled with the hopes of tomorrow…. My teacher smiled with pride when I secured full marks in my exam… My friend’s eyes twinkled with that mischievous smile when we planned another prank… That deadly smile of my first crush which he held when he looked at me… The smile of achievement and satisfaction shining on lips of my parents when I received my first salary… The magical smile of loyalty and togetherness of love of my life, when he held my hand and promised that it’s going to last forever….
What would life be without these beautiful smiles….
Today I turn back at life and smile thankfully for treasuring so many smiles for me…. 🙂 😉