POST 113

Most of the times, winning or losing doesn’t make much difference… It’s only about happiness which we feel after winning… But don’t we be happy any which ways.. So we perform how we really want to do it and not how others will appreciate it… 😉

Social Media and Me

Yesterday a girl went for dinner with her friends,  they had amazing time,  got pictures clicked…  Nice…

But how does it influence my life…  Am I going to get benefitted by spending my minutes reading about her post and watching those pictures….

Aaaaaa….  I personally don’t think so….

I have around a thousand of friends on Facebook…  But when I am about to burst in tears or go crazy with happiness, those thousand friends never come to mind… I can only think of few friends(the number is countable on my fingers)… And they are the ones who listen to me and share my pain or joy…

I am not saying social media is bad… It helps us connect to large number of people and interact on a bigger platform… I am just saying,  It’s over hiped and is eating much more of our daily time than it should… Somehow we have forgotten living our lives in real world… And have started living more to impress people on these platforms… Impress may not be the exact word but something related… We stop living the moment and start clicking pictures to put it on some social media site… We have forgotten to stop and feel our surrounding… The feel… The touch… The smell…These are to be lived and not to be captured for showing it to the world…

Remember in school days faculty used to ask..  “Note down notes later… First concentrate and understand”…. We don’t want to understand anything anymore… We are busy taking notes and showing it to the world… Inspite of the fact… The world hardly cares…

Think Once…

Before accepting the mediocrity of life and giving up on your dreams…

Before growing up and accepting that true love only exist in fairy tales…

Before faking that smile and nodding in agreement when you actually disagree…

Before being plastic and accepting the norms of society…

Before trying to make that impression which doesn’t allow you to be you…

Before taking that career decision which pays you lucratively but slowly turns your body into just a machine…

Before getting into that dress which you find uncomfortable but makes you look attractive…

Before buying that phone,  which is just another phone for you but will become a sign of your high class taste…

Before marrying that guy whose soul doesn’t connect to yours but can provide you with economic stability…

Think Once… Do you really want to do this….

Just A Thought…..

I am not your fan…. I have never been… I’ll never be…..Fans want you to be perfect, I fell for your imperfections 😉  …….

I don’t want your fake happy smile… keep it for others… I want to wipe your tears…. when you feel lonely…. I am not looking for strength in you… I just want to hug you tight, tell you I believe in you…. when you feel week….

I didn’t fall for you…. for your looks…. your voice…. your talent…..your salary…. I fell because of your innocence…. your sweetness…. your stupidities….. your twinkling eyes when you look at me…. the way you cheerfully listen when I shout at you….the way you never give up when you have to help me out… the way you sounded much more happier than me when I got my new job that also without asking my salary hike…. the way you copy exactly how I talk because you notice me so well….the way we sit together silently glazing stars…. the way you laugh on me and make fun of me…. the way you stop… and tell me that I look beautiful ❤ …….

I don’t love you because you can buy me expensive gifts…. but because you still want to prepare coffee for me…..

I don’t want to know how successful you are….. or how many people appreciate you….I just want to know the real you… whom you have been hiding from the harshness of real world… the vulnerable you…. the delicate you…. I just want to softly keep that you in my heart…. ❤

I don’t love you for your confidence…. your smartness…. your skills… I love you because of your patience…. your cooperation…. and understanding behavior….

I don’t only love you because you are so special… but because you still choose to act so ordinary…. ❤ ❤

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